This Just Dawned On Me Today: It's About The Heart
- Denby Sheather

- 21 hours ago
- 3 min read

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to see through the noise of the world so clearly — while others, no matter what they're shown, simply cannot?
It's a question I've been sitting with for a long time. And today, something clicked into place.
It's not about intelligence. It's not about access to information. The internet has made truth more available than at any point in human history, and yet so many people are still following orders, still deferring to systems that don't serve them, still unable to question what they've been told to believe.
So why? What's actually going on?
The heart is the bridge — between the analytical mind above, and the deep knowing of the gut below. When that bridge is closed, the two can never speak to each other.
Think about how we're actually built. We have three centers of intelligence in the body — and this isn't metaphor, it's anatomy. The mind in the head: our reasoning, analysing, labelling faculty. The gut: our oldest intelligence, pre-verbal, instinctual, the one that knows before we know why. And in the middle — the heart.
The heart is the translator. It takes what the gut knows — that wordless, primal sense that something is wrong, or right, or true — and brings it up into language, into feeling we can name and act on. Without a clear, open heart, the head and the gut become completely disconnected. You might sense something in your belly and have no idea how to articulate it. Or you follow your head, overriding what your body has been trying to tell you for years.
And here's the part that really landed for me today: most people are walking around with a closed, guarded, or wounded heart. Not because they're weak. Not because they're foolish. But because life gave them reasons to close it. Trauma. Heartbreak. Betrayal. Systems that rewarded compliance and punished sensitivity. So they armored up — and that armor, as protective as it once was, is now blocking the very channel through which truth can travel.
Waking up isn't primarily an intellectual act. It's a healing act. The question isn't "how do I find the truth?" — it's "can I trust myself enough to feel it?"
This changes how I think about the conversation around "waking up." We've spent so much energy trying to share information — documentaries, articles, evidence — as if the barrier is knowledge. But if someone's heart isn't open, no amount of information will land. The data hits the head, the head has nowhere to take it, and the system stays closed.
The real work, then, isn't just about what we know. It's about the healing that allows us to feel what we already, somewhere deep down, sense to be true. Grief. Forgiveness. Sitting with discomfort. Letting the body speak. These aren't soft detours from the real awakening — they are the awakening.
And the beautiful thing? You can begin right now. Not with a book, not with a documentary, not with a debate. With this short practice to help open the sanctum of your heart.
Find a quiet moment. Sit comfortably, close your eyes, and take three slow breaths, in through the nose, out through the mouth. Let your shoulders drop.
Place one hand over your heart in the center of your chest. Feel its warmth, its steadiness. Place your other hand gently over the crown of your head.
Feel the connection between both hands. The intelligence of the mind above, and the quiet wisdom of the heart below. Breathe into that space between them.
When you feel ready, speak these words, aloud or silently, slowly: "In this moment, I allow all of my divine intelligence to awaken and drop into the sanctum of my heart. I am safe. I am held. I am ready to know, and to grow. I am ready to meet and express my full myself."
You may start to feel a warmth in your chest, a softening. A subtle shift in how present you are to yourself. That is the heart beginning to open — or, more accurately, beginning to remember that it always was.
The heart doesn't need to be taught what's true. It needs to be safe enough to say so. And the more we tend to it — with gentleness, with practice, with patience — the clearer that inner voice becomes.
This is how we wake up. Not all at once, and not through force. But through the quiet, courageous act of coming home to ourselves.
Of learning to love ourselves enough.
AHO
"The longest journey you will ever take is the eighteen inches from your head to your heart."



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